Captain Lee and Carl Radke's Friendship Through the Years

Before their falling out, Captain Lee Rosbach and Carl Radke offered Bravo fans a glimpse of their friendship.

Lee rose to stardom after appearing on 10 seasons of Below Deck. Carl, meanwhile, has had many of his ups and downs documented on Summer House since he joined the show in 2017.

Though they star on different shows, the duo were brought together after losing loved ones due to addiction. After Lee’s son Joshua died at age 42 in 2019, he reached out to Carl as he dealt with brother Curtis’ death from an accidental drug overdose in 2020.

“We share kind of a similar story. My brother and his son passed from addiction. [Lee] reached out to me last year during a really hard time,” Carl recalled during an appearance on Watch What Happens Live With Andy Cohen in February 2021. “But having someone else from the Bravo family reach out meant a lot. Especially Captain Lee, who, I mean, he’s a legend. And then also he’s a male figure. I think coming from him, it was super important.”

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Lee and Carl have remained in each other’s lives since then. The captain was even asked to be the officiant at Carl’s wedding to Lindsay Hubbard, which was set to take place in November 2023 but was called off three months prior.

In response to speculation about why Carl ended the engagement, Lee publicly defended his friend and Lindsay.

“It kind of upset me that people in a situation like this actually take sides, because there’s obviously no winners here. There’s just both parties losing,” Lee exclusively told Us Weekly at BravoCon in November 2023. “So, to sit there and go, ‘I’m Team Carl,’ or ‘I’m Team Lindsay.’ Like, why are you going to be that way? They have things obviously to work out. Leave them alone and let them work on what they need to work on.”

Keep scrolling to relive Lee and Carl’s friendship through the years:

2020

As Lee opened up about his son’s battle with addiction on Below Deck, Carl found out while filming season 5 of Summer House that his older brother died. Lee subsequently offered his support to Carl, who has been candid about his own history with addiction before getting sober.

2021

During the Summer House season 5 reunion, which aired in May 2021, Carl publicly thanked Lee for reaching out to him. His then-girlfriend, Lindsay, called their friendship “the most beautiful, sweet thing,” while reflecting on how Carl dealt with his grief.

2021

Lee replied to a Bravo fan who applauded how he helped Carl, writing via X (formerly Twitter) in May 2021, “Something we all could do more of, is it easy, no but it’s the right thing to do. Give all you have, and you will never be poor.”

Carl recalled in his response to the advice Lee offered him, adding, “I’ll never forget you telling me ‘You can’t go wrong doing the right thing, it may not be comfortable or easy, but it’s still the right thing to do, and doing the right thing is what will make you the most comfortable with the man in the mirror.’ You’re the best Captain Lee.”

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2022

After keeping in touch over FaceTime and phone calls, Carl and Lee finally crossed paths in person at BravoCon 2022.

2022

Carl credited Lee during an episode of WWHL for laying the “groundwork” to make him “feel confident” about starting a relationship with Lindsay. Carl also referred to Lee as “a father figure” while discussing their friendship in March 2022.

2022

Carl praised Lee for the influence he’s had on his life, writing via Instagram in November 2022, “I am forever grateful for the time you reached out to me at such a pivotal moment in my sobriety and grief process. As you know, losing a loved one is really hard but having you as a support system these last two years has been a huge blessing. … Thank you for your kindness, warmth, strength and guidance. I’m so fortunate to have you as a friend.”

Lee, for his part, replied: “Carl, you, my friend, have done all the heavy lifting. It has been an honor to call you my friend and a privilege to be able to help where and whenever I can. Believe me when I tell you I get back much more than I give. Thank you sir.”

2023

In honor of Lee’s 10-year anniversary on Below Deck, Carl made an appearance to celebrate his pal’s Bravo career.

“I’m so grateful to have him in my life and [it’s] so fun to shower our favorite Capt with some love! You’ve done so much for so many and it’s really inspiring to see,” Carl wrote via Instagram in March 2023. “Thanks for being a great example and for telling it like it is! Excited for your next charters in life #MoreCaptLee.”

While filming the WWHL special, Carl told Andy Cohen about Lee’s role in his upcoming wedding to Lindsay, saying, “It’s going to be [in] Mexico. We’re still working out some of the logistics, but we’re going to have a conversation with Captain Lee.”

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2023

Despite being just as shocked as the public was by Carl and Lindsay’s split, Lee stood by his friend’s side. “Carl and I have had a conversation about this. I am not at liberty to discuss any of that conversation but he is as devastated as anyone I’ve ever seen,” Lee said on his “Salty With Captain Lee” podcast in September.

Us confirmed in November that Carl recorded a tell-all on Lee’s podcast where he addressed the breakup. The episode, however, never saw the light of day.

“We did record an interview with Carl Radke. I’m sorry to inform you that it will not be aired, and that was not my call,” Lee said at the time. “If you would like to find out why, I guess you could ask Carl Radke. We did do it. We did record it, but it will not be played. So, I apologize to all of you who thought you were going to be hearing it. That was my intention, but things just didn’t work out.”

Carl, for his part, didn’t publicly respond to Lee’s comments.

2024

While speaking with Us, Lee confirmed he hasn’t spoken to Carl recently, sharing in May 2024, “No, I haven’t. He’s been pretty busy.”

Lee offered more context one month later when he finally acknowledged their falling out. “I’m going to say something. Carl and I used to be close. I gave Carl an opportunity to be on the podcast and tell it as he saw it,” he recalled on his podcast. “[If] there was a question he wanted taken off, we took it off. If there was something he didn’t want to answer, we didn’t put him on the spot.”

Lee continued: “Usually we release a tease on Tuesday, which we did. Then I got a phone call from Carl and he just went off on how I was taking advantage of him and trying to put him on the spot. His publicist was there — as was mine. I was blown away. I don’t know what made him go off the way he went or what he was thinking.”

The end of the segment featured Lee addressing Carl directly, saying, “He got the best possible interview from anybody that he was ever going to get. I gave him the opportunity to tell his side of the story the way he wanted. He didn’t have to say anything he felt uncomfortable with. He ended up hanging up on me after accusing me of deceiving him. So Mr. Radke, you were not deceived by me.”